launchd restart can leave the gateway job stopped but still registered after
update-time drain logic, so a direct bootstrap hits exit 5 and falls back to a
detached process. Booting the stale registration out before bootstrap keeps the
launchd-managed restart path intact and locks it with a regression test.
Constraint: Keep upstream-facing conventional commit style while preserving local decision context
Rejected: Treat bootstrap exit 5 as expected | Leaves macOS launchd restart outside launchd supervision after update
Confidence: high
Scope-risk: narrow
Directive: Keep launchd start/restart recovery flows aligned when changing launchctl handling
Tested: pytest -q tests/hermes_cli/test_gateway_service.py -k "launchd_restart_boots_out_stale_registration_before_bootstrap or launchd_restart_falls_back_to_detached_on_error_5 or launchd_restart_drains_running_gateway_before_kickstart or launchd_restart_self_requests_graceful_restart_without_kickstart"
Tested: pytest -q tests/hermes_cli/test_gateway_service.py -k launchd
Not-tested: Manual macOS launchctl restart after hermes update
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