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Salvage of #37865 by @verybigdog. Adds delivery_mode (notify / notify+wake / wake) on kanban notify subscriptions, persists chat_type + user_id_alt so a woken turn reconstructs the creator's real session key, inherits the return path to child tasks, and keeps wake out of the model-exposed send_message schema. Original commits were authored under a local placeholder identity (hermes-agent@users.noreply.local); re-attributed to the contributor's public email.