force_refresh_token gated the adopt-from-disk paths behind the failure cooldown.
After one of our exchanges failed transiently, a 401 within the next 30s returned
None even when a sibling process had already rotated and written a valid grant,
so the operation raised HonchoAuthError with a good token sitting on disk.
Adopting is a disk read, not an exchange; the cooldown exists to stop replaying a
single-use refresh token, so the two adopt checks now run before the gates.
_write_config parsed honcho.json twice under the lock and only wrapped the first
read into ConfigWriteRefused; _refuse_unparseable now returns the parsed dict and
the branches use it. The getattr/isinstance duck-typing collapses to one guard.
cli._read_config reuses oauth's tolerant reader (BOM-tolerant, like the strict
reader the write side uses) instead of its own utf-8 copy.