The pause record's second evidence reader (_names_request) turned a refused or
malformed planned-stop marker / accepted receipt into False, i.e. "this update
never asked it to stop". Past the request's TTL recovery then dropped the live,
still-draining gateway (drop_never_stopped) and durably retired its debt.
Now only an absent file or a valid one naming something else is "not asked";
refused/malformed is unknown: the entry stays owed (held as draining while its
process lives), and unknown is never resolved into stop_sent, so the next pass
judges it again.
The consumer's receipt (mark_stop_accepted) swallowed its own write failure, so
an accepted stop could leave no durable trace at all. When the home refuses the
new receipt file it now stamps the kept request in place ("accepted", opened r+,
never created); a torn stamp reads malformed, hence unknown, hence owed. An
expired request nobody accepted still expires.