One answer per profile, asked once, with the Desktop strip's three equal
choices (Send to Nous / Local only / No thanks) now offered by:
- `hermes setup`: at the end of every flow (Quick, Full, Blank Slate,
Portal, --quick), via the setup-completed record they all funnel into.
- `hermes` / `hermes --tui`: once before an interactive chat on a profile
that never answered. Skipped for -q, piped/JSON output, spawned actions
(HERMES_NONINTERACTIVE), Desktop-hosted panes and managed installs.
- Web dashboard: a banner for the profile being managed, backed by
GET/PUT /api/shared-metrics/consent.
"No thanks" is the terminal default so Enter never opts anyone in; Esc and
the banner's X leave the question open.
Also fixes the answer that could not stick: a CLI "no" equals the shipped
defaults, so save_config stripped it and every surface (Desktop strip
included) kept asking. The answer is now written to config.yaml directly,
and `decided` has one definition shared by the RPC, the CLI and the router.
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