Closes the #95663 round-8 review blocker (false settlement before
commit veto): the pre-commit surface (`_surface_stall`) logged
"Force-aborting the turn and stopping lease renewal" and warned the
user "aborting it so the session can recover" BEFORE `_commit_abort`
could veto — so a turn that resumed during the warning window (or an
exceptional interrupt path that declines fail-closed) was reported as
force-aborted with lease stopped while it actually continued running.
- Split the surface: `_surface_stall` is now observational only ("no
progress for Ns; attempting recovery"), and the definitive
aborted/lease-stopped settlement moves to a new
`_surface_committed_abort` that runs only after `_commit_abort`
succeeds and the turn lease is deactivated.
- Rate-limit repeated pre-commit surfaces per observed generation: a
turn whose aborts keep declining no longer re-logs an ERROR and
re-warns the user every poll interval.
- Add the committed-path regression test
(`test_watchdog_publishes_definitive_settlement_only_after_commit`)
and extend the declined-path witness
(`...resumes_during_warning`) to assert no committed-abort or
definitive pre-commit claim appears when the abort is vetoed. Both
fail on the pre-fix tree (mutation-checked).
- Document the `_interrupt_turn` lease-loss asymmetry (fires
unconditionally, no generation claim — losing the lease means the
process no longer owns the session).
- Trim review-round archaeology from comments/docstrings (keep the
WHY, drop the round numbering), and drop the dead
`cancel_event` compat note from the test fence.
- Document `agent.turn_liveness` in the configuration guide.
On top of PR #95663 by Finn763 (cherry-picked with authorship
preserved).